Hi,
Snow!!!! I love snow…except when I’m standing on a hillside at 9pm in the dark and fog and snow, with not quite enough warm things, trying to work out which of many many tractors that are appearing out of the dark, all dressed in lights and tinsel and all have air horns (some of them have some really fancy ones that play all sorts of tunes) is our tractor and am trying to video all of the tractors without dropping the phone when my fingers are like ice blocks….no, I’m lying, I still like snow even then!
That’s what I was doing this weekend, watching my son and Mali his spaniel taking part in a tractor run. As I’ve told some of you already, I really didn’t think the tractor was going to make it. I thought I’d be spending the evening trying to find where he was broken down. Instead, he managed the whole journey and, bonus, his friend who had a newer, more powerful tractor and had been teasing him that he would tow his tractor home when it broke down, managed to run out of fuel and had to be rescued! Bonus for me was that the tractor didn’t break down so Mali stayed clean in the cab and I didn’t have to bath her when she got home.
I probably need to introduce you to the next of the dogs, because nobody can ignore Gwen for too long. She’s a complete goofball, who has the silliest grin and the fluffiest coat and, compared to Mali, is a pro at getting mud-bathed, rather than an amateur. Here is Gwen…

She is a pain to take for a walk because 9 times out of 10 when you take her for a walk she is a good girl. She trots along elegantly at your side, looking beautiful and well-behaved. That other 1 out of 10 time?…she goes feral! She galumphes around the place, pretends she can’t hear or doesn’t even know her name and runs as fast as her fluffy legs will carry her straight to the most disgustingly stagnant bit of ditch and dives straight in. The picture is one of her being walked home in disgrace after one of those times.
At home she is a complete princess. She is by far the prettiest of our dogs and is nicknamed Marilyn Monroe…we say that she has all of the glamour but that her brain is made up of mashed potato and elevator music. She is the kindest, gentlest girl who gives cuddles to anyone who is sad and brings her toys to anyone who has just arrived or is crying.

Lots of people wonder why we didn’t have a litter of puppies from her, but if they knew the truth about Gwen, they would know why we didn’t…..she was the baddest baby ever! She was wilful and had mostly chosen not to hear her name when we called. She chewed everything (our kitchen table has one slightly shorter leg because of her). She ate the curtains in a cottage when we were on holiday. A disgusting habit of hers is that she learned how to switch the air con on in the car and then loudly (and slobberily…it’s not a real word but it describes what happens) sucks the air out of the vents. Oh my goodness, its the kind of noise you wish you could burn out of your ear drums, it makes you never want to eat again and not ever own a retriever?…that! And she’s clever, that’s the problem. I switch the air con off and she waits til I’m concentrating on driving again, switches it back on and the slurping starts again. Can you imagine trying to survive with a litter of those??! Nope, no babies for Gwen, I don’t think I could cope with a whole load of them. One Gwen is quite enough!
You’ve probably noticed that my chief technical advisor and printer operator is back. That’s the good thing about having missed a week. So, last week’s letter was from the week before. This letter you will get this week but belongs to last week (so I have added photos in) and this week you will also get this week’s letter as well…loads of Blitherings! You can’t escape them 😂.
So now I’m going to move on to this week’s letter….
13th December 2023
I saw a mug this week that said “what a year this week has been”…and that’s how it feels!
This week I also saw this verse from Isaiah and have held on tight to it….I thought you might like to hold onto it too:

It’s been a ‘keep on keeping on’ sort of a week with lots of difficult things, all with good outcomes thankfully.
We had a hospital appointment with my eldest daughter’s main consultant. There is a big, scary decision about feeding tubes and nutrition to make as she deteriorates, but it wasn’t this time. This time we have continued to dodge the bullet. She’s a little bit thinner, her condition scores are a little bit worse, function has deteriorated a little bit….but not too much, so we keep on going as we were.
My husband is back home with us (and back working the printer!). Wow! Shingles is a nasty little beastie, isn’t it?! He’s still feeling a bit grim but he’s not infectious any more. Gwen was so pleased to see him she brought him all her toys, including her very favourite, bestest, much loved one.
We had an emergency, too, before Pete got back. Last week one of our yard cats (the joke in our house is that they were supposed to be stable cats but they turned out to be unstable cats because they are so spoiled) got knocked on the road. The yard cats have been with us since they were kittens, they’re now 10 years old and have a cosy thermal box by our back door, get fed a few times a day with cat food and also have the leftovers from our meals in the winter. I’m also slightly ashamed to say, they are so thoroughly spoiled that in the winter they have a microwaveable hot bottle that gets topped up a couple of times a day and is put in their kennel and they also come in to sleep in front of the kitchen fire in the evening. There are 2 of them, Claude and Mr. Roberts and it was Mr. Roberts that got hit.

He was thrown into a muddy ditch and came limping back home, absolutely covered in mud. My daughter, her carer and I set to bathing him. It’s just as well he is such a lovely boy, because he hates water but was still very well-behaved. We cleaned him up, dried him off, then took him to the vets to be checked over.
I didn’t think it through when I named him. He’s named after the old owner of our house. I hadn’t realised the awkwardness of his name….the vet calls out “Mr Roberts?” I stand up and say “that’s me”….meaning, of course, that’s my cat. The vet assumes that the cat cannot be called Mr.Roberts, cos obviously a cat won’t be called Mr. Roberts. And so we have that difficult moment when the vets looks me up and down to try to straighten out whether I am a ‘Mr.’ Roberts or not and I try to explain, in embarrassment, that the cat is actually the owner of the name and yes, he does get his full title. The vet examined him and discovered that he has what he thinks are 2 hairline fractures in his front leg, so we took him home with his indignation and some painkillers (he had to have a thermometer up his tail region and wasn’t best impressed) to sleep it off in front of the fire.
Two days later he came limping up to the house with a lump on the side of his head that tripled his head size. Off to the vets…the whole Mr Roberts?/that’s me drama all over again. This time he had a massive abscess on the side of his head where he’s been bitten by another cat. So not only did poor Mr. Roberts have a thermometer up his tail region this time, he also had his abscess burst and cleaned out, an antibiotic injection given and he was sent home with 10 days worth of antibiotic tablets as well. Not a happy Mr. Roberts. With all this, and the extra prep for Christmas and one man down with Pete being away, it’s definitely been a keep on keeping on sort of a week!
This next topic those of you who got these letters through Covid will be very familiar with….Meteor Showers!! There’s nothing like a bit of sky watching to keep us grounded, I think. This week its the Geminids meteor shower, which is one of the easiest to see without a telescope. Also there can be up to 150 meteors per hour depending on how active it is this year and it can be seen all over the sky, so if its active, you should be able to see it from your window, whichever way it faces! The Geminid meteor showers are well known for being colourful because they are caused by debris from a broken-up asteroid, and so chemicals and metals are released causing the colours.
What I would like you to do is…any time from 7.30pm on Thursday night which is the start of the best time to see it (don’t worry, its every night up to the 20th), brew yourself up a hot drink, switch out the light and sit as close to the window as you can. While you wait for your drink to cool and then drink it, your eyes will get used to the dark. Then start watching the sky and hopefully there won’t be too much cloud cover. It can take a bit to focus your eyes, so stay patient….I hope you see some! I always remember that the stars, moon, meteors that you can see are the same ones that your loved ones can see too. There are no fences in the sky. I love being aware of the majesty of creation, a very little part of the unimaginable scope of the universe…like when we were talking about the meaning of ‘fathoming’ a few weeks ago. I will be outside too, probably with 2 ‘unstable’ cats, definitely with a cup of coffee, sitting on the low wall in my garden watching to see if there are any shooting stars.
I’m going to leave this letter with a poem this week, it says everything I need it to say about a hero of mine…

Blessings,
Elizabeth




















